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Service, party honor teen's life

August 04, 2005

Dave Brooks

They had come to enjoy the baby blue skies, eat homemade cookies and

make sense of something very terrible.

Visitors laughed and smiled as they jumped on one of three bounce

houses, played volleyball and occasionally rocked out to the

amplified sounds of a local jam band. In between bites of pasta salad

and fried chicken, the more than 1,000 people in attendance at

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Friday's party in Southeast Huntington Beach shared memories -- some

happy, others embarrassing -- of 17-year-old William "Cody" Roy,

killed in a July 16 car accident just outside of Parker, Ariz.

The good spirits of the party were a sharp departure from the sad

memorial service earlier in the day. For nearly two hours, funeral

goers sobbed and silently reflected on the death of Roy, a popular

student at Edison High School, where he was set to return as a senior

and play running back in the football program.

Roy's father, Don Roy, said he wanted party-goers to have a good

time and view his son's death as a "promotion into heaven."

"A lot of people perceive death as a bad thing, but it's not

necessarily true," Don Roy said. "I am sincerely happy for him. I'm

just really sad for us, because now we are going to miss him."

Cody Roy leaves behind two sisters -- Siobahne, 16, and Chloe, 9 -- as well as his mother Geri. The party and service, both brimming

with evangelical Christian undertones, were also a way for Don Roy to

make some sense of his son's death.

"Bottom line is that God has to use deep pain in our life to teach

us," Don Roy said. "It's an accident in our eyes, but it's not an

accident in God's eyes."

Don Roy said he received a call from authorities in Arizona that

his son had been in an accident with two other youths, and there had

been one fatality.

"Basically there was a one in three chance that my son had died,"

Don Roy said. "We started driving for Parker, when we received a call

from the Highway Patrol. They notified us that he was dead. We turned

around and drove home. It was the longest trip of my life."

Authorities in Arizona did not return phone calls for information.

However, Don Roy and others at the memorial service said the crash

occurred after Cody Roy and his friends had been drinking, and they

stressed the message that drinking and driving are a dangerous mix.

Pastor John Boyer who presided over the service at First Christian

Church, said he hoped young people would take Cody Roy's death to

heart and think more closely about their own actions.

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