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In The Pipeline:

Raising 43 children

April 16, 2008|By CHRIS EPTING

She looks reasonably relaxed and calm. She speaks in measured thoughtful sentences, pausing from time to time to make sure she finds just the right word. A couple of her adopted pups trot in, two tiny hardship cases named Carl and Chad (the latter, missing a leg — he was extra needy, and that’s why he’s here).

She smiles a bit nervously as she says she’ll be chaperoning her 15-year-old son’s date later that afternoon. Just another day for a mom who has just helped get her 29 kids ready for school.

Sharing a quiet moment with Ann Silcock is something to be valued and appreciated — she is a busy woman, after all. As you may be aware, Ann and her husband, Jim, have adopted 43 children over the last 10 years, focusing their life’s energies on building a family made up of kids that, as Ann puts it, “People just didn’t want. Kids who are disabled, abused… everything.” But what may be cumbersome disabilities to some parents become diamonds in the rough for the Silcocks — they’ve watched boys bloom into young men in their household over the years, thriving in an environment that’s nurturing, positive and productive.

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The room where we sit is quiet and calm. We’re in a house next door to their main residence; a place the Silcocks are adapting for their ever-growing brood. Next door, Ann’s Jim is helping get the last kids off to school (currently, 29 sons live at home, ranging in age from 4 to 16). This helps create some time for us to talk.

A stack of camp forms sits in front of Ann, and she’ll pore over these after I leave. She says a typical day starts by setting the breakfast table for 29 hungry mouths, followed by getting them off to school (28 will leave, one son is home schooled). At 2 p.m., the boys will start returning and by 3:30 p.m., everyone is back home — at which point things like homework and recreational activities commence. Sixteen workers help with the boys who have total health-care needs, and Ann and Jim use every free moment to forge special one-to-one relationships with each son, as well as providing a larger scale family concept for the boys.

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